Ok I recently hooked up with this really nice good looking girl at the club over the weekend. At first my friend said and I quote him "hay man that girl over there is eye fucking the shit out of you, if you don't go over there and dance with her I will for you, you pussy". From this information I assume she does like me, so I start dancing with her. We danced for a good 45min at least grinding up on each other. Before I left I asked for her phone number and she put it in my phone. Then later that night I lost my cell phone and was really bummed out, cause I was really into this girl.
Fortunately I remembered her name though and randomly searched it on facebook's website and saw someone with her name that looked just like her. Out of curiosity to see if it was her I added her and later found out it was her. She first replied back from the add with a private msg over the site saying "How the hell did you find me?". Then I replied and explained to her what happened the night before as if she wasn't the same girl under the impression at this point from her reply that I probably added the wrong person.
Then she replies back that she is the same girl.... now I don't know what to respond with or say back I feel like a stalker-ish type of creep just due to the fact I actually found her like that without even knowing what school she went to or her last name. Any advice as to what I should reply to her with or say or do here would be greatly appreciated I am at a stalemate type of situation here where I am about to just not reply and give up
Let her know you really liked her and that you were bummed when you lost your phone and thought you would give facebook a try. If you really like her you should not give up... (just make sure you dont tell her what your friend said before you met her
Hope it works out ---- either way, let me know how it turns out....
Wow here comes filson to the convo late as usual. lol but it's kinda best in this sitch to say that u dont want her to think ur trying to stalk her but to say that u really didn't want her to think that u jest decided to dance with her get her number than never talk to her again. I've been in kinda same sitch and i really jest wanted to say to her that i did have fun and that i jest was being an idiot and lost the number.
I would say just explain the situation and go with it. As a girl, if I liked a guy and gave him my number and it seemed like he was feeling me and then I didn't hear from him, I'd be a little bummed. Just don't do anything else creeperish
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